Men’s BDSM Test
What’s this BDSM test about?
This version is written for men exploring the receiving side of BDSM. A bottom receives the action in a scene. A sub agrees to give up some control. You can be either or both.
There are 142 items. Pick one of six answers for each: SSS: Love it · SS: I’m into it · S: Okay with it · Q: Not my thing, but I’d do it · N: Hard no · W: Not sure. Your report shows a chart and the answers you chose. You can save it as an image or PDF.
Use it to sort out what you want or start a conversation with a partner about where you both draw the line.
What’s on the list
- Foot worship & foot play (17 items)
- Sex & submission (11 items)
- Puppy play (19 items)
- Objectification & toys (21 items)
- Animal-themed play (2 items)
- Outdoors & in public (11 items)
- Impact, pain & bondage (33 items)
- Control & discipline (5 items)
- Service & group scenes (12 items)
- Body fluids & toilet play (11 items)
Frequently asked questions
Is it free? Do I need an account?
The test and report are free. You don’t need an account. If you link this device to a member account, you can see synced records on other devices and compare your answers over time.
Who can see my answers?
Your answers aren’t publicly listed. Saving or getting a report stores your answers online so you and authorized site admins can manage them. The test keeps unsubmitted drafts in this browser when storage is available. Members can create a share link and choose what it shows. Anyone with the active link can see what you included. If you set a passcode, they need it too. You can revoke the link to stop future access.
What do my results tell me?
They show what you’re into and where you draw the line right now. It’s a way to think things through. It can’t diagnose anything. Take it again later if you want to see what’s changed.
Can I take it regardless of gender or orientation?
Yes. You can take it regardless of gender or orientation. If you’re answering from the receiving side, pick the women’s or men’s version based on which wording feels right to you. If you’re answering from the leading side, try the dominant version.
Does a rating count as consent?
No. Every choice describes how you feel about the item. Even “Love it” or “I’d do it” gives no one permission. Agree on the specific activity and check in again if anything changes.
Is it for everyone?
It’s for adults 18 and up. Some items are explicit or high risk. Everyone involved still has to clearly agree to what happens and can change their mind at any time.